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The Banker With a Sad Smile

A story about how steady pressure at work can quietly wear a person down, and what recovery can look like.

By The Mind Project6 min read
Mental health · Africa

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  1. 01

    The Noonday Demon

    Andrew Solomon · depression, memoir and reportage

    A wide, humane map of depression across cultures. Strong on experience and history.

    Review coming soon
  2. 02

    Reasons to Stay Alive

    Matt Haig · depression and anxiety, memoir

    Short, warm, and honest about recovery. A gentle first book for many readers.

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    The Body Keeps the Score

    Bessel van der Kolk · trauma

    Influential on trauma and the body. We flag where its claims run ahead of the trial evidence.

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    Man’s Search for Meaning

    Viktor Frankl · meaning, resilience

    A classic on finding purpose through suffering. Philosophy more than clinical method.

    Review coming soon
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Voices

The Banker With a Sad Smile

A story about how steady pressure at work can quietly wear a person down, and what recovery can look like.

By The Mind Project6 min read
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